O ring day collar, gray rubberized glass, discreet day collar, symbolic jewelry, BDSM collar, submissive collar, polyamory necklace, triple


This choker or necklace in silver-tone features gray rubberized glass beads, three O rings, and a filigree heart charm.

It's tasteful, elegant, and comfortable. It can be worn as an everyday accessory, for cosplay, or as a discreet BDSM day collar. This necklace, in particular, represents polyamory.

This necklace features 12 10mm gray rubberized glass beads. The beads are wired on Stainless steel eye pins and are connected with lightweight aluminum jump rings.

The focal point is a trio of silver metal 1-inch metal O rings. Below that hangs a filigree heart charm.

I finished the necklace with a silver-toned metal chain and added a silver-toned lobster claw clasp for easy access.

A BDSM day collar is a subtle way to quietly and covertly, but publicly, show your devotion and ownership with elegance and comfort.

It makes a perfect gift for your special someone and a discreet way to highlight your relationship. It's a reminder of the trust shared between the two of you.

"In BDSM context a collar is a device of any material worn by a person to indicate their submissive or slave status in a BDSM relationship".
From www.Kinkly.com.

Also, see www.submissiveguide.com/2012/02/what-is-a-collar/

This necklace is 18 inches long.
You can order it from 14 inches to 28 inches in length. Or longer, if you prefer.
Please specify what length you'd like. If you want this to be a choker, please use a tape measure and measure your neck. Specify your preferred length in the comments when ordering. If you don't specify, I'll assume the length of this necklace is acceptable. :)

Please, note that this choker/collar/necklace is strictly symbolic. Do not use for bondage, tug play, stress play, etc.
Don't wear it in the swimming pool or the ocean. I'd suggest keeping it fairly dry.
Again, it is meant to be discreet and symbolic only.

If you are strictly Vanilla and not into the BDSM lifestyle, you can still wear this cute necklace.

I won't judge you either way...

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